Hello. Nice big garden. Very thankful that your description was very clear and understandable what you want.
I planned fruit trees and stone water basins in south side of the house which you can watch through living space window. When trees grow taller its gonna block sun light and shadow of the tree leaves swing in your floor.
I planned free space that can relax your eye in the west side of the house. That free space has only one fully grown tree and a big natural stone and it is surrounded by dining area and patio and vegetable garden. This free space is kids playground too.
Since I am not gardener and I don't really know about plant species, I leave them blank. Instead I tried to visualize how its gonna look like in render photo. I hope you take some ideas from it.